If you have
wandered over from my previous blog Thrifty Mom In Boise or just stumbled here by chance - Welcome! This is my new blog. After well over ten years (eleven + actually)
of blogging about my life as a thrifty single mother with two daughters (my
adult son has been grown and on his own for quite some time now) I am nearing
the end of my full time parenting role and, you guessed it, getting ready to
change gears and embrace early retirement.
It has been a long time goal of mine to retire early. I've dreamt about it, planned for it, saved
for it and worked hard to get there.
That time is drawing near and I am very
excited about it. This will probably be
my last year of full time employment. My
goal is to retire on December 31, 2022 and I thought you might enjoy following
along with me as I make the final preparations and get myself ready for my big
day. With that in mind, I decided to go
ahead and start this blog now rather than to wait until I retire.
Last year
was the most difficult year of my life as far as my health was concerned and I
almost thought I was going to be forced to retire at the end of 2021. All my life I've been blessed with really
good health, always passed my physicals with flying colors, perfect blood work
and no serious issues or illnesses of any kind.
The only hospitalization and surgery I'd had was a tonsillectomy when I
was five years old. So you can imagine the shock for me, my family and my
circle of friends when I developed some major heart and vascular issues. In
less than six months I'd suffered a carotid dissection with an aneurysm and
three myocardial infarctions (aka heart attacks). Thankfully, I was able to get the medical
help I needed and have managed to turn it around, for the most part. Will I ever be back to where I was physically
before all of this happened? Probably
not. Will I be back to where I was
mentally and emotionally before all of this happened? Definitely not. These things will change you, but not
necessarily in a bad way.
As many of
you may know there is nothing quite like a major life crisis to shake things up
a bit. As you recover and get better you
cannot help but mull over the situation in your head at times and reconsider
the path you happen to be traveling. I
decided right away I was not going to feel sorry for myself or allow despair to
set in and I think I managed to do that pretty well overall. I won't say there weren't times of
frustration and occasionally fear would creep in and try to grab hold. Fear is not at all helpful, nor does it solve
anything so I managed to pretty much keep that at bay and instead worked on
being positive and proactive. With all
of that I realized that if I had to retire even earlier than I had originally
planned I would be okay financially. I
would have to make some new decisions and change some plans but I was comforted
in knowing it could be done. But getting some much needed answers and a
solid treatment plan for my health situation as well as getting back onto my
feet is allowing me to stick to my original plan and agenda. Thank you Lord. Well, I have definitely rattled on long
enough so I will end this post right now and I really do hope you will join me
as I embark on this next chapter in life.
It is going to be fun, I'm sure of it.
I hope you
all are doing wonderfully this fine first day of 2022. I pray for wisdom, good health and great
prosperity for us all. Pandemic be
damned! Let's make it a great year,
shall we?
Today marks my husband’s first official day of retirement. He is 61. He had 37 years with the state. He was ready for sure but his main reason was if he’s retired and dies first I get his pension. If he was still employed I’d only a lump sum of I think $25,000. At our age you have to think of these things.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been a long time reader if your blog and look forward to this one as well.
Congratulations to him. Super exciting!
DeleteThanks for taking us along on your journey, I'm sure it will be great!
ReplyDeleteI am so excited!
DeleteCongrats!! I can't wait to follow along on your journey :)
ReplyDeleteYay Brooke! I'm so glad.
DeleteCongratulations!! So exciting!! Wishing you the best!! What an exciting adventure!!
ReplyDeleteWhoo hooooo! :o)
DeleteGreat news! Cheers to you!
ReplyDeleteThank you much!:)
DeleteStarted my first day of "almost" retirement today! I have a few projects that have carried over into the new year, but am hoping not to be tied to my laptop any more. I spent yesterday bagging up work suits for donation that I would be unlikely to ear again. It felt very symbolic! Looking forward to seeing your journey.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Beth! I'm excited for you.
DeleteLooking forward to following you on your new adventures! Best wishes and Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteThank you Lynda!
DeleteI always say, "I've always been retired but now I get paid for it." I was a stay at home, homeschooling mom so I set my own schedule. I think that's what most people looking forward to retirement really want, to set their own schedule. I've always admired how well you planned and saved and were such a happy, frugal lady. Congratulations and may your health not get in the way.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, I'd say a very hard working retired lady! :0)
DeleteLooking forward to following along on your new adventures.
ReplyDeleteMy husband retired 8 years ago and it was the best thing for him and us. You can do this!!
Thank you Lori!
DeleteJoin the ranks! It's great to be retired. Yep, I'll be following along! Cheers.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad Pam! :)
DeleteLooks like we'll be retiring the same month Dec 2022
ReplyDeleteYes! Let's do this!
DeleteYou go girl!! So happy for you! Can't wait to follow along on your new blog, exciting!! Patti Ann
ReplyDeleteThanks Patti Ann!!
DeleteI love reading your other blog and look forward to joining you on your journey toward retirement. You got this!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much!!
Deletewow! I am very excited about your new blog! Being a long time reader and similar in age I look forward to your thoughts on retirement and frugal living. I have learned so much from you and pray God's best. Tracy
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Tracy :)
DeleteYay! So happy for you! A brand new blog and new adventures on the horizon! Happy 2022!
ReplyDeleteHappy 2022 Teri! :)
DeleteI'm so excited for you! I will be cheering you on! I actually thought about you when I had my heart attack 4 weeks ago. nothing like a health scare for you to get your priorities in order! Take care!
ReplyDeleteOh Mandy! Not a club I wanted you to join. I hope you are doing well. Take care my friend.
DeleteCongratulations! I'll be following your journey as we are looking forward to DH's retirement in 4 years and mine in 7 years.
ReplyDeleteYipeee! Glad to have you along. :)
Delete