My Tireless Retirement - Week 231 & 232

 

Slowly I find myself settling into my new home and surroundings quite nicely.  Things are getting organized and put away, I am able to cook regularly in my cute little kitchen and I’m starting to loosely build my new daily routines.  My one constant through all of this has been keeping up my morning coffees.  I even bought myself a nice new coffee pot.  I’m not addicted, just committed.

 

I've started to hang up my wall art

Once the U-box was picked up and removed from my driveway it really felt like I was officially moved into my home.  In the shed there are plenty of bins and boxes to unpack, but for now I am settled in enough that those items can wait a bit.

 

I am at that stage where I can slow down and unpack at a more leisurely pace

I’m learning my way around town as I figure out where to shop for groceries, buy gas for my car and, of course, where the local Home Depot is located.  We have a Wal-Mart, a Safeway, Dollar Tree and a local supermarket we’ll call Benny’s.  Not a lot of shopping options, but sufficient nonetheless.  What I’ve noticed about all of these stores, including Home Depot, is they are much smaller and more compact than what I’m used to.  Online shopping is filling in the gaps.

 

Cherry limeade margarita - delicious! 😋

On my birthday I celebrated by taking myself out to lunch and enjoying a fun cherry limeade margarita.  Then I picked up a tiny chocolate birthday cake and a carton of vanilla bean ice cream.  It was a simple relaxed day and absolutely perfect.

 

Jack is settling in just fine

As Fall approaches the sunsets have been coming earlier and earlier.  I love to sit on my porch and watch as the sun goes behind the mountainside and disappears.  The El Nino this year has brought warmer than usual daytime temperatures, but the nights are nice and cool.  Right now our highs are in the mid to low 80s.

 

I bought some new plants!

Getting all of the bills I’d accumulated in the move collected and paid was a huge relief.  It has been a very long time since I’ve had bills like that, but it was good because everything I had made by selling my truck and motorhome plus the proceeds from my estate sale was exactly what I needed to cover those expenses with enough leftover to set me up nicely in the new house and cover those extra costs including utility deposits/fees, groceries, new carpet as well as some new furniture and appliances, mainly a washer and dryer.  That blew my mind.  What a blessing!  I am so very thankful.

 

Dude!  What are you doing up there?!

Labor Day weekend I gave myself permission to be a bit lazy and rest up after the big push to get moved and then moved in.  I had no particular agenda and just did whatever I felt like doing.  It was nice not to feel pressed to do stuff and be overly productive.

 

Mums just speak of Fall to me

I visited the nursery near my house and was able to add some new plants.  Nothing quite makes a home like something green and alive.  I potted up a magenta chrysanthemum to sit on the table next to my porch rocker.  I can see it from my living room window as well.

 

A new pothos

One of my neighbors informed me that naptime is a requirement in this community.  Admittedly, Jack and I have had a few catnaps together in the recliner mid afternoon a couple of times.  He's doing his best to get me trained. 😉

  

I got my ghosties out because I just love them so much 😊

The remainder of the week was mainly spent puttering around the house as I continue to unpack a box here and there.  I was able to get some of my artwork hung up on the walls.  I’ve also been organizing and re-organizing spaces to make them more efficient and workable.  It’s all a process.

 

A new peace lily

Thank you so much for all of the well wishes, birthday wishes and words of encouragement.  It has truly meant the world to me.  It makes this journey so much more fun when you have others to share it with.  Have a great weekend and I wish you a fabulous week ahead.

 

Moving Into My New House

 

Once I closed and accepted the keys I was all about giving that house a really good clean.  It had sat empty for a short time, the previous owner was a bachelor and the hired cleaners that were supposed to show up before the place was even listed didn’t.  The bedroom carpet needed to be replaced as well, it was dirty and worn out in several places.  The condition of the home made for very good leverage to get this place for the price I wanted to pay.  I made sure to adjust the price accordingly and offer to take care of cleaning, replacing the carpet, as well as a few minor repairs that should’ve also been done.  I offered much less than it was listed for, so it took a bit of persuasion by the realtor, but in the end I won my case.  😉

 

The bathroom was by far the dirtiest room in the house

Even though I’m pretty handy I did have an inspection done to make sure I hadn’t missed anything and thankfully that turned out uneventful.  With that completed I was able to move forward with closing knowing I only had to tackle the things I was initially thinking I would need to.  A little bit of touch up paint, a couple plumbing repairs and a lot of cleaning followed by tearing out the old bedroom carpet and installing something fresh and new.  I also needed to remedy the makeshift laundry situation, which I will go into more in depth later on.

 

I was so grateful I thought to bring rags and
cleaning supplies with me in the car

This carpet had to go!
Dog pee stains near the door made it non-negotiable! 😟

The U-box was delivered about a week after I closed and I was able to empty that out placing my neatly labeled bins and boxes in the rooms where they belonged.  Then slowly and methodically I began to unpack and put my things away.  I’m sure, knowing me, I will still be arranging, rearranging and reorganizing for a while, not to mention finding things to get rid of and wondering how that item made the cut.

 

Much better!

The kitchen got a good scrubbing and some minor repairs

My camp mattress worked out perfectly as my temporary bed until my new one arrived.  Bringing my camp bed and sleeping bag along in the car allowed me the option to check out of the hotel and start sleeping in my new house right away once I was done cleaning.

 

Jack made himself right at home on the camp bed 😆 

Gotta love move-in chaos! 😦

I’ve been going room by room to put my things away and make this place into a home and I can tell you it feels wonderful to be here.  I’ve already met some of my neighbors too.  I am so very happy I made the leap and took it on faith that it would all work out and be just fine.  Honestly, it is better than I ever could’ve imagined.  It is so good to be home!

 

My New Home!

 

A long held dream has finally been realized and I couldn’t be any happier about it.  I have literally taken all of my hopes of a cabin in the woods, a change of location, condo life, tiny house dreams and mountain living, mashed them all together and came up with, what for me is, my perfect little home.  My sweet tiny house in a quiet and lovely 55+ community in the mountains.  

The front porch has quickly become a place to greet the day and enjoy my morning coffee.  I’ve longed for a porch like this.  I can already imagine strings of Christmas lights hung along the railing come December.

 

Open kitchen w/ dining nook

My humble abode is a modest 396 square feet and it is plenty of space for me.  My favorite room in the house is the kitchen, of course, but to be perfectly honest I love the entire house.  I am so thrilled with the home’s features and finishes.  And despite its small size is has loads of storage space.

 

Basic simple bathroom

Not only do I have an abundance of indoor storage I also have a Tuff Shed in my backyard.  It is perfect for my camp gear and tools.  My tiny yard is exactly the size I need with only a neighbor on one side as it sits on a corner lot.  It will be fun in the spring to acquire some planters, pots and flowers to dress things up.

 

My bedroom

My backyard

Right now I’m just taking my time, slowly putting things away and simply enjoying the process.  Soon I’ll be adding some new furniture, but not a lot.  I am going to be really intentional about what I choose with the idea that, as I mentioned earlier, I don’t need to fill it to capacity.  I am furnishing this home for one person – Me.  It is all about me now, don’t you know?  Stay tuned!  More to come!  😁

 

 

My Tireless Retirement – Weeks 225 thru 231

 

I have worked my butt off in recent weeks to get myself to this point.  In the first twenty nine days leading up to closing I sold, gave away, tossed, recycled and donated so much stuff.  I made decisions, some really hard ones, and I won’t lie, there were some tears along the way.  I found a new home for my chickens and that story is so cool I will be writing a separate blog post about that.  I said good bye to our eight year old bunny when age caught up and her health took a turn, I agreed to allow one of my cats, my oldest daughter’s fourteen year old tabby Stella, to go live with my daughter’s good friend from high school and all at the same time I was getting rid of so much more of my stuff.  By the time all was said and done I was down to just what would fit into a single U-haul transport cube, some things in the back of my Subaru and my beloved cat Jack.  It was a crazy and wild ride!

It felt a little strange leaving the closing with only
a car key & a key for the padlock on the U-box

 

Jack handled travel & hotel life remarkably well

On August 11^th at 9:00 in the morning I signed at the title company in Boise and officially made myself homeless, but I had an idea of where I wanted to go and possibly where I wanted to live.  So Jack and I climbed into the car and started driving across the country on a three day multi state road trip.  The U-box with what remained of my belongings would meet up with me later.  We stayed in pet friendly hotels along the way and I ate crap I don’t usually eat.  Se la vie.

 

I found this lovely Mexican restaurant & the food is delicious

When we arrived at our destination I had booked a one week stay at the Quality Inn and that became home while I investigated and made sure this was where I wanted to be and as it turned out, it was.  I had spent enough time in this state during my life to know I wanted to land here someday and although I was seeing it for the very first time, this particular small town in the mountains was exactly what I had hoped it would be.  The small town vibe reminds me a little bit of the town I lived in when I was a young, newly divorced single mom.  I quickly began to appreciate the slower pace and lack of steady traffic.  More importantly, I was able to embrace the peace and quiet.  I could finally hear my ears ring, not that I necessarily wanted to, but I could.

Home Sweet Home 😍 Full tour coming soon!

New keys!

Immediately I was able to make an offer on a potential home I had discovered just prior to leaving.  It was accepted and after an extra two day stay at the Quality Inn we closed and I got to put our things back into the Subaru and check out of the hotel.  We headed to the next town over, only five miles away, and moved into our new home.  I let U-haul know my new address and arranged to have the U-box delivered.  Then it was time to start making this house my home.

 

I brought a box of cleaning supplies in the car with me

I began by cleaning every square inch and making a few minor repairs.  The biggest project I took on was to replace the bedroom carpet.  Once the U-box arrived I was able to unload what I had chosen to bring into this new phase of my life and start to put things away.  There was grocery shopping to do and a couple Wal-Mart runs for some household items.  I also placed quite a few online orders to furnish my home, not the least of which was a brand new bed and a cute little dining room table and chairs as well a brand new washing machine and dryer.

 

Day 1

My initial goal was to simply get things relatively close to where they belong.  I had the U-box for a week so plenty of time to unpack and now I have even more time to organize and settle into a new routine and way of life.  I’m sure a lot of things will be moved around and reorganized as I settle in and figure it all out.  Right now I am able to function so I have no complaints.

 

My new porch rocker, perfect for relaxation

I have begun meeting my neighbors and their respective doggies.  I am also getting eager to explore my surroundings and really get to know this beautiful place I have chosen to live.  So far I can tell you the sunsets and cool evenings are delightful as I sit in my new rocking chair on my new front porch and wave to people as they walk by or enjoy a chat when they stop.  This is the lifestyle I’ve been eagerly waiting for.  Now I don’t have to wait anymore.

 

Happy Birthday To Me!

 

Well, I didn’t get to go on my vacation as planned, but you know what?  I am completely okay with that because now I’m on a permanent vacation and I absolutely love it!  I celebrated my 62^nd birthday yesterday and I was definitely in my happy place.

 

Life has a funny way of working out sometimes, but if you are open to possibilities life can be pretty amazing.  An opportunity presented itself and I took a complete leap of faith that it would all turn out alright.  And it did!

 

I remember when I was in high school I would sit and daydream of a little place of my very own, surrounded by trees with a creek nearby and trails to explore.  A tiny little place in the woods for me to call home.  I have that now.  On August 21^st, ten days after I closed on the old place, I signed on the dotted line and purchased my new home.  My very own tiny house in the mountains!  It couldn’t be more perfect.

 

I am no longer in Idaho and that, in and of itself, feels rather surreal.  I made this decision on my own and went where I wanted to go in hopes of finding just the right place.  At long last, it happened!  That young girl with all the dreams bouncing around in her head finally got her wish.  Best. Birthday. Ever!!  Stay tuned for further updates.

I Moved!

 

I don’t think I was prepared for what happened after I sold my motor home and my truck.  The BFF was here for a weeklong visit during the Independence Day holiday and as per our usual we talked a lot.  Often those talks lead us to go down rabbit holes we never planned to go down, but it happens.  Later, a casual conversation on the golf course led to someone talking to someone who knew someone else.  And the rest, as they say, is history.

 

I sold the motor home as well as the truck on a Friday, the BFF went golfing on Saturday and Monday morning while the new truck owner was there to pick it up a couple was also here to look at my house.  By the time I was done signing over the title and handing over the truck keys this couple was ready to make me an offer on my house.  I was stunned.  This wasn’t even on my radar.  To sweeten the pot they offered me no inspection/no repairs (one of the homebuyers just happened to be a home inspector and felt confident), free cleaning plus a junk removal company to come for free to haul off anything I didn’t want at the end with a 30 day closing.  Their offer, more than fair.  I accepted, with a three day right of refusal, despite them telling me they would allow me to back out at anytime.  Later that evening I was sitting in my recliner staring at my BFF in disbelief and saying “I can’t believe this just happened.”  His reply was simple, “If not now, then when?”

 

All of this because of a conversation that began after a second strong summer windstorm busted half of my fence posts on my 180 foot long fence line and left me feeling overwhelmed and a bit dejected.  At the time I was feeling like “I am always fixing the fence” and working on home maintenance projects and I’m really tired of doing it.  Also, my big Sycamore tree was dying and I was looking at $3,000 to $4.000 to have it removed next spring.  Another tree lost.  The exterior of my house was in need of paint and I was about to start getting estimates to have that done this summer.  A new roof in five years, new flooring about then too, it was piling up.  Admittedly, it was not my best day and I was very emotional.

 

My BFF just looked at me and said, “What would make your heart happy right now.”  I said, “I just want a tiny home or cabin in the woods.  Quiet and peaceful.  That’s it.  That’s all I want, but I know I can’t have that here in Idaho.”  His response, “Then go get it.  Go somewhere else and find it.  You have been here long enough and you deserve to have something that gives you joy, not anxiety.”  I knew he was right and I knew I needed to get busy and start working to make it happen.  I really wanted it.

 

What I didn’t know at that time was that I wasn’t going to be alone, in any way, shape or form, in making this transition.  Unbeknownst to me at the time, the BFF had been talking to a golf buddy so he had already set my plan in motion.  The only thing I had to do was agree to it.  Initially, we thought we were just putting out some feelers to see what might be possible, neither one of us expected things to move as quickly as they did.  Or maybe it was just me that thought that.  But truthfully, are we ever really prepared for something wonderful to just happen?

 

It has truly been a bit of a whirlwind, to say the least, but it has also been rather fantastic.  Going forward, I’m not sure how much I am going to share or how quickly I will be sharing.  A lot has happened, so please bear with me.  One thing I will not be sharing is my location simply for security and privacy reasons.  I’m in a very small town and it would be far too risky.  I’m also feeling very protective of my new space and my new life.  With that being said I will tell you, I have found my tiny home/cabin in the woods and I am absolutely thrilled to pieces.  Now I just need to settle in and make it my own.

 

I will be back to blogging now.  I’ve missed it and missed all of you so much so be sure to check back and follow along as I embark on my next “great adventure” in life.  Take care my friends!  I’ll be back very soon.