Life always comes with its ups and downs regardless of what is going on in the world outside our door. For some, it may feel difficult to step out our doors and face whatever life has to offer on any given day. You just never know what might happen. It is important not to lose hope and be willing to face whatever comes our way and meet it head on. Much of what we face every day is far beyond our control. Prices are rising at a rate most of us have never seen in our lifetimes and it affects everything – food, utilities, education, travel and transportation, goods and services, medical care and even our entertainment. To meet these challenges I am happily becoming more resourceful. Even more importantly, I am choosing to become more resourceful.
Daily Transportation
Instead of worrying about how I can afford to fill the gas tank on my
car and truck I am choosing instead to figure out ways to purchase less
fuel. I am walking, riding my bike and
taking the bus and using my car for just a weekly trip to run errands. When I do go to the gas station I will only
need to purchase five or ten gallons of fuel at a time instead of needing to
fill the entire tank. To save even more
I will fill up at gas stations that I can use my rewards points for discounts
and pay with a credit card that gives me 4% cash back on gas purchases.
Food & Health
Food
and my health are interconnected. I am
focused on eating good quality nutritious food as that is going to be my fuel
to keep me going each day. Making sure I
have plenty of protein in my diet to keep my muscles in good shape is important
so the bulk of my grocery dollars are spent on the best quality meat and
seafood I can afford. Fresh and frozen vegetables,
a little bit of fruit and some dairy is next on the list. To make sure I can best afford this I take
advantage of coupons, digital store offers, sales and markdowns. I have also adjusted my spending in other
areas to free up money for these important purchases.
I make
simple meals. I cook at home from
scratch, I make most of my own condiments and salad dressings, I plan my meals
based on what I already have on hand, I batch cook or meal prep and make my own
convenience food and freezer meals. There
are no quick trips through the drive thru for this girl, in fact it has never
been one of those things I was ever prone to do. Eating out has always been viewed as a treat,
never a necessity.
Consume Less
For the
most part, I stay out of the stores and shop a whole lot less online. I tell myself “I have plenty” and it is
true. If I think I need to go out and buy
something I push the pause button and really give that purchase a lot of
thought. Nine times out of ten I can
find something I already have in the house to do the job. I make do with what I have and I take care of
it too. I make repairs or mend items to
make them last longer. I keep things clean,
protected and well maintained. I do as
much as I can, and do it myself, to avoid costly repairs or replacements.
Find FREE
There are a lot of ways to do things and enjoy life that doesn’t cost anything. I like to go for a bike ride with a packed lunch, stop at a park and eat it and then ride back home. Our city offers a ton of free activities so I keep a watchful eye on the community calendar. Several of our churches offer a free dinner once a month which is a great way to go out to eat and meet new people. If I’m hankering for a movie night I can pull out one of my own DVDs or find something on Youtube, pop some popcorn (in a pot on the stove) and settle on in. In the summertime our city offers free movie nights in some of our parks where you can spread out a blanket, bring your own food and enjoy the movie on a giant screen.
Check
Facebook Marketplace for FREE items when you are in need. Clothing swaps are a great place to get used
clothing at no cost. The Bicycle Project
can get you bicycle or help you repair yours and it costs you nothing. If you are low income you may qualify for
free bus passes. Our county has a
program for eligible seniors to receive a monthly food box delivered to their
home. Meals On Wheels delivers hot
prepared food to seniors Monday through Friday.
Once a year there is a community health fair offering free screenings,
immunizations and other resources to help people. We also have free medical and dental care
clinics available to those in need.
Our
food banks and various food pantries throughout the area can help bridge the
gap when things run low and payday is still a ways away. There is no shame in accepting help from one
when you need it. Our city provides a
list of them to assist people in getting what they need. Many of these pantries can also provide
toiletries, hygiene products, dish soap and laundry detergent. The university here has a beautiful food
pantry for their students that offers pretty much anything they might
need. If you want to give back you can
donate money, items or your time by volunteering.
Embrace Community
We’ve
become a society that doesn’t necessarily interact well with others. Many of us don’t even know our
neighbors. I encourage you to find your
tribe. Touch base with your friends and
relatives and form a group. Each of us
has something we can bring to the table to help each other out whether it is
knowledge, a skill or even a tool that one can share with others - trade labor,
trade goods, trade advice and ideas. Help
each other rake leaves, paint, work on vehicles, or whatever needs to be
done. Connect with each other and form
bonds so you are not alone.
As we
age I think it becomes even more important for us to stick together and help
each other out. Aging comes with its own
struggles on top of everything else we have to deal with. Having good companionship can go a long way
in helping us navigate the bumps in the road.
I want
to encourage you to take a look at things with a different lens and to become
better prepared and more resourceful as you move forward. By being better prepared things will be easier
in the long run, and by that, I think we become less fearful. I want you to feel empowered to take things
on and to be successful at it. We can do
this!
























































