As a single
woman do I still need a three bedroom house with two bathrooms? The short answer is NOPE. Ideally, I do see myself downsizing into a
two bedroom one bathroom house on a single level as I age for that will be much
more practical. However, right now I am
currently using every square foot of the house I currently live in. Each room has a purpose and is used for that
purpose. And the truth of the matter is
I am totally in love with this place.
I have lived
here since the end of January 1995 and have been steadily working on improving the
condition of this house and making it into a home. Initially I made repairs, replaced the roof,
replaced doors and windows, updated electrical and lighting, updated plumbing, repaired
and painted the exterior as well as a host of other things, paying cash as I
went along. By the time the structural issues
were addressed it was time to start again on the now dated and worn out interior
updates that had also been made during that time.
In the past two
years I've gone through nearly the entire inside of this house once again
updating and making improvements which has included new trim, paint and carpeting.
There have been maintenance items to address too, such as new toilet seats and a garbage disposal. And I paid cash as I went along because it is
very important to me that I remain debt free. At long last the interior of
my house looked the way I had always imagined it in my mind and in my heart and
it truly became a home to me.
Once the
majority of the interior updates was
completed I was committed to making the exterior of my home look and feel as
good as the inside does. I wanted both
inside and outside spaces to be reflective of each other and this year I was
finally able to do just that. Many, many landscape changes have been made
to my home and it now looks the way I had always imagined it in my mind and in
my heart as well.
All of my
children are now out of the house and I am officially an empty nester. I think it is important that I have the opportunity
to live in my home for a minimum of one year before I make any big decisions as
to whether or not I will sell and move or not.
In fact, due to me retiring and entire year sooner than originally
planned it might prudent for me to wait an entire two years before I make a
decision. The bonus for me is getting to
thoroughly enjoy the fruits of my labor.
There are other
factors for me to take into consideration.
I love living in the city I currently reside in. My house is located
near everything I need access too including a main city bus line and the
airport. I really enjoy my neighbors and
I live in a very nice neighborhood, I know a lot of people cannot say the
same. I feel safe, which is extremely
important.
Because I have
lived in this house for so long it is also exceptionally affordable for
me. I've managed over the years to
figure out ways to heat and cool my home so my electricity bill is relatively
low. I've made a lot of changes too that
save on my water, sewer and trash bills.
And now that I live alone I expect to see even more savings as I'm no
longer taking care of a family. I
seriously doubt I can live somewhere else for a lower cost at the moment.
Nothing is set
in stone, we all have to remain adaptable and fluid because things happen and
changes ultimately need to be made. But
for right now I am quite happy and quite content to stay right where I'm and
enjoy this home I have created. It has been a lot of work, a true labor of
love.
I agree with staying. I'm totally with you on no major decisions for one year after retirement.
ReplyDeleteI'm willing to bet in this town it will cost you double to move and it will be away from the services you enjoy within walking distance. And an older home could have far more problems than you have repaired at this one. We're in the same boat. We'd love to move but it will cost us 50% more than our sale price AND be further from the parts of town we spend our time in.
Happy Wednesday :-)
I so want, at the very least, to live in this house and get to know what if feels like to live here alone. I'm in a good spot plus it helps that I've got great neighbors too. A lot of people don't even know their neighbors. I know I'd have to leave Idaho if I was to sell right now.
DeleteGreat neighbors? We can't buy those. I also have great (retired) neighbors as well as younger families coming and going through our 31y here. One more change in this home is to raise the step-down living room to decrease fall-risk as we approach our older years.
DeleteCheers to great times in your home :-)
Since your house works so well for you and isn't too big, I don't see the need(the point) to 'downsize'. If it's not broken don't fix it".
ReplyDeleteI love what you have done with your house! Great job with all the remodeling, and I'm glad you have things just the way you want them. Enjoy your home!
ReplyDeleteWe’re wanting to downsize as well but where do we go? The homes in Wake County NC are selling for outrageous prices. We could most likely get a great deal on our home but buying another one is the issue.
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