After nearly three months of houseguests I was in deep need of a serious home and life
reset. It is a hard thing to share your
home with other people for a long span of time because we all do things
differently and even though they know how I am with my super power it didn’t take long before they settled in and made
themselves very comfortable. I made the decision early on that I would
teach myself to deal with whatever happened as I didn’t want to add any more
angst to the upsetting situation they were already in. Toward the end, however I admit I was
struggling a little bit. Now that they
are in their own home I am able to reclaim mine.
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Before There was a weird film all over the tub & shower |
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Scrub, scrub scrub |
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After The pictures don't do it justice. It gleams! |
First, I started upstairs in the main bathroom, which sadly
was a fair bit of a mess.. I’m not sure
what products they were using in the shower, but it left a thick, sticky film
on nearly every surface and it was really hard to scrub off, but with comet
cleanser and a lot of elbow grease I got it!
A large load of towels went through the wash. I also washed the curtain and liner as well
as the bath mat. I cleaned out the
inside of the drawers and cabinets wiping down the exterior of the vanity as
over time I had been forced out of my own bathroom with my things as theirs
took over. I ran a hair snake down all
the drains and pulled out some monsters, then scrubbed the begeesus out of the
sink and toilet. The walls and ceiling
as well as the light fixtures got a thorough cleaning with hot soapy water and
a touch of bleach before I tackled the floor.
Done!
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So shiny! I love all the afters! |
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Just my stuff in here! And new bath towels! |
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Pretty, pretty, pretty! |
Thank goodness I had my downstairs powder room to move
into. I am now moved back into the
upstairs bathroom. I re-hung my pretty
guest towels back onto the towel bar along with the rest of my dรฉcor (which
isn’t much). Yes, I’m one of those
people - “don’t use the guest towels, they’re just for looks” and I know not
everyone does this. Rather than create a
battle I chose to simply remove them during their stay. I had cleaned all of my storage bins I keep
my things in under the sink and once they were dry I added them back with all
the goodies including the new bath towels I had bought myself at Costco last
month. With everything back in place I
polished the mirror and the faucets and took a deep breath. It was very satisfying to get this room
completely clean and back to being my bathroom.
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Before |
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Before |
Next up, I was all about putting my guest room/craft room
back to the way it was before their arrival.
I spent about two days in there cleaning and putting things back in
place. My doll collection was an issue
for them (they are in the camp that dolls are creepy – weirdoes!) so there
was a lot of relocating of things they found objectionable. I could’ve told them to “deal with it”, but I
wanted them to be comfortable. Plus they
needed some space. In that room I washed
everything, dusted, vacuumed, cleared
out the closet and reorganized it, washed all the bedding and the curtains, cleaned
the mirrored closet doors and set it all back up for ME. My dollies were back in place and so was my
sewing machine. To say the least I was a
happy camper!
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And now! |
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I'm so happy! |
Sadly, because of all the things I had to move to
accommodate them my poor bedroom became the dumping ground for everything that
used to have a home, but suddenly didn’t.
That was really hard for me to have all of that clutter in my rather
minimalist bedroom as it affected my ability to relax and settle down at night
and get a restful sleep. My bedroom was
next on the list as once the other two rooms were done all of the clutter was
pretty much gone. I cleaned, dusted,
vacuumed and reset my bedroom. Now I
find I am sleeping much, much better. After
giving my upstairs hallway and the stairs a good once over I made my way downstairs.
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My room is no longer a dumping ground! Nothing on the floor anymore |
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Apparently this is grape jelly |
In my kitchen I pulled all
of the dishes, glassware and silverware out of the cupboards and filled up the
dishwasher to rewash everything. I
cleaned out the cabinets and drawers because I found food crumbs and not so
clean dishes and silverware inside. The
inside of the drawers and cabinets got all wiped out as well as the outsides of
the cabinet doors and drawer fronts paying particular attention to all of the
knobs. I also washed the silverware tray
and all my other organizers as well as the liner in the pan drawer under the
stove.
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Much better! |
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I scrubbed out my crumby cabinets |
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I re-washed every single dish |
I know not everyone cleans the same way I do and that is
just how it is. But, once the dishwasher
was done (I also used two soap tabs as well as vinegar in the rinse well) I was
very happy to put all of my dishes and silverware away in their proper order
knowing that everything was all clean and tidy now. With hot soapy water I cleaned the entire
kitchen, walls and ceiling included (it was necessary), pulled out the
appliances to give them a good cleaning (inside and out), vacuumed up the food
chunks that somehow had accumulated and clean up spills I was not aware
of. It happens. Moving right along…
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All squeaky clean! ๐ |
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All of the silverware is nice and clean. The tray too! |
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There were more treasures behind and underneath the fridge |
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My cleaning water isn't usually this icky ๐ |
The living room and dining room were next on my list and
once that was done I was able to finish up washing all of the chair and
furniture covers and put them back (food free) and decorate the living room the
way I prefer. Sometimes things got moved
and placed in different locations, which (for someone like me) was a bit of a struggle, but I managed knowing this
entire situation was only temporary and I knocked it out of the park!
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Before |
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After! Clean, odor free & organized with only healthy food! |
The downstairs bathroom was fine. It was the only place that I felt I had total
control over so it was kept clean and tidy for the duration of their stay. I didn’t really need to do anything except
take the items I had relocated from the other bathroom and put them back
upstairs, empty the trash and refill the toilet paper rolls under the sink
(upstairs bathroom too). The hand soap
dispensers were also refilled in both bathrooms. Bathrooms officially done!
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Living room |
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Jack was my super helper |
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And dining room is all spiffy!
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In the laundry room (the other dumping ground) where I had
been doing A LOT of laundry once they left I gave it a complete reset. I pulled the washer and dryer away from the wall
so I could thoroughly clean the walls, ceiling and floor. I washed off both appliances and then I slid
them back in place. I finished washing
the walls and ceiling, cleaned the window and washed the curtain, cleaned the
shoe and coat racks and got those reorganized.
With those chores complete I restocked my laundry supplies and moved on.
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Before |
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Ta da!
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The freezer got some love too ๐ |
Lastly, I cleared out, cleaned and reorganized the kitchen
pantry. Since we had agreed at the
beginning that they would provide their own groceries accommodations needed to
be made for them to store their food.
Things were shoved in places all willy nilly as again, we don’t do
things the same way. By this time I had
already scrubbed out the inside of the refrigerator so at this same time I also
took the opportunity to get it all restocked and organized exactly how I like
it. Neat, tidy and pretty!
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Thankful, grateful & truly blessed |
It has taken me a solid two weeks and it has been a ton of work
getting this house back in order and making it the home and sanctuary where I
live and thrive. After watching what my
friends have been going through, and it has been a lot, I am so very grateful
to have the things that I have and to be the person that I am today. I have thanked God many times throughout
these past twelve plus weeks for making me who I am. Even with my super power. I wouldn’t
want to trade places with anybody. I am so blessed. Blessed to be able to help someone in need,
but also to have the strength, patience, ability and endurance to take care of what
needed to be done during their stay and after.
Thank you Lord!
Your friends were truly blessed to have a place to stay and you were very hospitable to them. Obviously more people means more mess. I have to say that if I’m ever in the position of needing help like this I hope I have someone as kind and understanding as you.
ReplyDeleteAgreed. Thank you Lee Ann.
DeleteYou are inspiration and a blessing! May your friends always remember your kindness; I know I will!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much.
DeleteI was reading along and thought, you must be SO happy to have your house back, all for you. exactly as you like it. (I think I share super powers with you!) But also, it kind of irritates me that you HAD to do as much work as you did. I have never, ever, my whole life, moved out of a place, however temporary, and not left it as good or better than I found it. Its the Girl Scout in me. Its unacceptable that the bathroom was not spic and span by THEM not YOU. I think its great that you were so kind and understanding, but that also makes it easier for someone to take advantage of you. If there is ever a second time, I hope you will set up some non-negotiable rules and expectations. For both you, and your friend.
ReplyDeleteI think we all have different ideas of clean and what might bother one person doesn't affect another. They offered to clean the evening they moved out, but I wanted to do it myself, my way. I did appreciate the offer though. And yes, I am SO happy to be on my own again.
DeleteSometimes you do what you have to do. When my mother was discharged from 6 weeks of hospitalization and rehab I stayed with her at her place for 2 weeks. My mother is a very difficult and demanding person. My brother wonders how I did it. It was hard but I did it because it was the right thing to do. I realized I could never do that permanently. Life lesson. I did my best to minimize my impact there because after all I was in her home.
ReplyDeleteThere weren't a lot of boundaries in my family growing up so as an adult I am very respectful of other's spaces and try to minimize my impact as a visitor. Years ago I got stuck sharing a hotel room with another woman I didn't know well. She got to the room before I did and laid out all her things just like she was at home. In the bathroom she had all her cosmetics & soaps across the counter and even had her shower poof hanging from the faucet. Needless to say I did my best to use as little space as possible. She even left the tv on to fall asleep by. I don't watch tv.
Oh dear, I couldn't have shared a room with that person. I'd have had to get another room because I would have lost my mind. LOL
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