Good
morning my friends. I hope everyone is
doing well today and that you’ve all enjoyed a fabulous week. I sure did.
Nothing all that exceptional happened and yet was an exceptionally good
week. With every day being the weekend,
how could it not? I am fully embracing
my retirement life.
My
mornings start out slowly. After a good
night of sleep I sit in my recliner, usually with a kitty or two, sipping my
coffee and watching the hummingbirds outside my window at the feeder. I sit quietly, windows and back door open
with the fresh, cool morning air coming in. No pressure.
Nothing looming ahead. Quiet,
calm and peaceful. It is a very good way
to start my days.
Over
the weekend I was in puttering mode. I
did some laundry, tidied up the house, prepared my meals and washed my
dishes. Simple ordinary tasks that I find
even more enjoyable now. Sunday morning
I headed outside and trimmed the hedges. I got that all cleaned up and my wheelie bin
filled to the top with lawn debris just in time for the heat of the day to
arrive. While I was working I was in the
shade so it was nice and cool. I did some
watering before heading inside to rehydrated and take a well earned rest.
I gave
myself the gift once I left my part time job to just take it easy and
decompress, especially that first two weeks.
Then I gave myself another two weeks because it seemed necessary. Now I’m thinking I’ll just continue to live
my life this way because I can. I’ve
never been one to just free flow through my days, but right now it just feels
like the right thing to do.
I also
gave myself the gift of not needing to leave the house and go anywhere for a
solid week, it ended up being ten days, and it was really nice. To just be home, no pressure to go anywhere
or get things done while I simply lived my life was a real treat. I plan to do it more often. I did look up some area events to go to, but
didn’t see anything that tickled my fancy and nothing was playing at the cheap
seat theater that I wanted to see so I think staying home for the week was a
really good option.
I spent
Monday working on home management administrative tasks like updating
spreadsheets, a little bit of planning, very little, and more puttering about
the house. Tuesday, again before the
heat of the day hit, I headed back outside to putter in the yard and
garden. The squirrels are not my friends
again this year and have pulled up all of my beans, but one lone plant. They ate all of my cucumber plants and the
squash too. Little bastards!
This
past week I have been slowly and methodically working on adding above ground
drip irrigation to my flowerbeds. This
is something I have long wanted. Taking
it one section at a time, ordering the parts I need so I don’t overbuy or buy
the wrong thing, I have managed to get it done with the option to add on
further in the future if I decide to. It
is so convenient now to simply go outside and turn on the faucet and then set
the timer so I don’t forget to turn it off a couple hours later. Definitely not an expensive or high tech
system, but it suits me well and I am thrilled to have it completed.
I
repotted a couple of plants into larger pots, prepared some lovely meals, drank
lots of water, did quite a bit of writing, played with Jack and Stella (the
cats love having me at home), played with the bunny, played with the chickens,
played with my dolls, played cards, worked some crossword puzzles, read, listened
to music and watched some TV. Plenty to
do and I loved every moment of it.








Sounds really delightful.
ReplyDeleteSquirrels!! : - P
LOL!
DeleteSounds like. Great week. 😊 The chipmunks and bunnies eat our garden plants . Enjoy, Janie
ReplyDeleteWell, everyone needs to eat. :)
DeleteIts so good to notice the change in you. You're learning A new way to live called enjoying retirement.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteMy mother-in-law lays chicken wire over her garden bed until everything is rooted to keep the squirrels at bay.
ReplyDeleteI'll probably need to do something like that.
DeleteSo glad that you are enjoying your life, you deserve it. Your week sounds perfect, coffee and cats what's not to love? Squirrels can be a real nuisance. I have 2 raised bed gardens. I put my cats hair after I brush them around the beds and also cotton balls soaked in peppermint oil. So far it's working. I have been retired almost 2 years and in the beginning I had all the to do lists and feeling like I had to accomplish things and go somewhere. Now it is the opposite and I have never felt better mentally and physically. Following along with you on your journey helped me put things into perspective so thank you for sharing your experiences. :)
ReplyDeleteAngela
I am always so happy to have you following along and commenting. Thank you so much Angela.
DeleteI love reading how relaxed you are and how you are resting and implementing self-care. As I've been reading about your retirement, I'm planning for mine in 2 yrs 1 mth (not that I'm counting. lol) After our working for so long (for me since I was 10 if you count babysitting or 15 if you count "real" job); we should be able to relax and not feel pressured to be doing if we don't want to or feel up to it. This year has me in a new job that is not stressful, but I find at almost 63, I don't bounce back from past stresses as easily and am still recovering from my past job. We flew to a grandchild's graduation and I came home with the latest cv1d variation that has had me sick for a month. This has never happened before and I know it's because of the lasting affects of the stress and my age. So, for the rest of the summer and probably onward, I am taking care of myself and not feeling the pressure to keep pushing on just because I always have. Thank you for showing me it is ok to do this.
ReplyDeleteStress does horrible things to a person. I hope you are feeling better soon and can get your spark back. Taking care of yourself is important and completely OK. XX
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