My go-go-go kind of got up and went. I am no longer in a rush to do anything. That mode of operation simply isn’t necessary for me anymore so I let it go. Something happened when I decided to sell my house. I immediately went into what I like to refer to as living in “free flow” mode. And! I don’t make To-Do lists anymore. In fact, I tossed out my carefully prepared planner and just did what felt right at the time, which if you’ve been around long you know this is not at all how I operate, but I do now.
I decluttered this! 😬
I didn’t
make a single list the entire time I was preparing to move or while I was
moving either. And guess what? It all worked out just fine. I got things done and I didn’t miss anything. I think I actually accomplished a whole lot
more this way without feeling any overwhelm so my plan going forward was to
keep at it and that is exactly what I continue to do. As I look back over the past three months I
am in awe at all that I have accomplished in such a short amount of time. This “free flow” lifestyle is really working!
While I’m
in “free flow” mode I find I no longer rush to do anything and that has really
changed me in a very positive way. My
stress level is pretty much nil most of the time and if I do get anxious it is
very mild compared to previously and doesn’t last very long. My mood is more calm and I feel good. I am also far more patient and understanding
when things don’t go exactly to plan. I
don’t even mind standing in line at the post office when there is only one
person at the counter. How about that?
I still
marvel at how much more I get done, how much easier and more enjoyable it is
for me to complete my tasks and how good the results are when I’m done. I don’t feel stressed or worn out as I
work or when I’m done which definitely makes life much more enjoyable. Also, if I don’t really feel like doing
something one day, I don’t. I let it sit
and wait until I’m ready to tackle it and so far nothing bad has happened. The world kept spinning and life went on as
usual. I love it!
You have settled into true retirement remarkably well and very quickly. Only thing left to do is enjoy it and you are!
ReplyDeleteSo true Deb. So true!
DeleteIt is amazing how simple life becomes when you only have to take care of yourself!
ReplyDeleteI am thoroughly enjoying it.
DeleteI still make lists, but I find myself purposely slowing down when I am out and about. What's the rush? No kids to pick up from school, nobody but me to cook for. Mistress of my own time and its lovely.
ReplyDeleteI don't need to get antsy if the lines are long, no need to hurry through a long list of errands or tasks, it is wonderful. :)
DeleteYou were under so much stress before and after your retirement. I'm happy for you, that you have now found a peaceful new normal.
ReplyDeleteI chose to leave all that stress behind in the old house. I did not bring it with me. ;-)
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