Since retiring in
2022 there are things I have done and continue to do that have simplified my life
and boosted my quality of life immensely.
Here are a handful of those things I’d like to share with you.
Declutter Your Space, Often
Going through and decluttering every square inch of my home, inside and out, has been a real game changer. I had no idea when I started just how impactful
this would be for me. Inside my home I
only have items I want, use and love.
Everything else was sold, trashed, recycled or given away and I have no
regrets. In fact, I wish I had done it
sooner. My home feels so much lighter
and more breathable. It is so much more
peaceful and less chaotic. I can easily
find what I need when I need it. The bonus
- I spend a lot less time cleaning
and maintaining my home.
I am much more
mindful about what I bring into my home now.
I don’t shop for stuff very often.
Quite frequently I tell myself “I don’t need that” and I find I really don’t. When I do make a purchase I put a lot of
thought into it first and usually it is simply to replace something else. Once that purchase is made I will remove the item
I am replacing immediately from the house - one in, one out. I sort my mail at the outdoor recycle
bin. Ninety percent of my mail never even
makes it into the house. Additionally, I
make routine sweeps throughout my house and I’m still amazed at what I can find
to get rid of.
Use It Up, Wear It Out, Make It Do,
Do Without
Once I retired I
was amazed at just how little I really need to live comfortably. I don’t need as much clothing, linens, food,
toiletries, etc. I consume a whole lot
less now than when I was working and raising a family. After decluttering my home I kept certain
items to use such as craft and sewing supplies, gift wrapping items, office
supplies, housecleaning products, and so forth.
Things I knew would get used up eventually. I make sure to use what I already have on
hand first before acquiring something else.
Since I retired I’ve
taken up daily journaling and instead
of buying an expensive journal I’ve been making my own out of a stack of
leftover spiral notebooks that I kept from the school supply bin. I use craft supplies to decorate the covers
and I’m using up a stash of colored pens and mechanical pencils I had in my
office supply drawer. I make my own
Christmas, birthday and other greeting cards.
I reuse the gift wrap and bags I already have in my organizer and I make
my own gift tags. I also make a lot of the gifts that I give to my friends and loved ones.
I mend and repair my
clothing, patching any holes or stitching loose seams before they get too bad in order to make them last longer. Old wash
cloths and towels become rags. I make my
own cloth napkins using fabric from my stash so I don’t buy paper ones at the
store. I create my own home décor from
my craft and sewing stash too.
Get Outside
I spend time outdoors
on a regular basis. I walk a lot. It helps me to clear my mind, exercise my
body and feel both mentally and physically stronger. I do yard work on a regular basis, even in
winter. I find physical labor to be very
cathartic - raking leaves, digging in the dirt, pruning my trees, tending my
small garden or shoveling the snow. I
need to feel the heat of the sun in summer, the rain falling in spring, the
crispness of fall and the cold in winter.
I embrace and enjoy all of the seasons.
It is important to
get out and enjoy a change of surroundings.
I love to hike a trail or walk along a river. I’ll pack a picnic for myself and take a
drive into the mountains. Sometimes I just
go to a park and enjoy the wildlife I encounter there. Being outside makes me feel good.
Be Content
I no longer want more
things, in fact quite the opposite. I want
fewer physical items in my life. I find
I no longer need “big stuff” in my life.
I’m quite content with the little stuff.
I find quite a bit of joy just in my morning cup of coffee and a kitty
in my lap while I drink it. Coffee I
make myself. I definitely don’t need to
drive through Starbucks or Dutch Bros.
I have no desire or
need for a bunch of fancy stuff. I don’t
need designer clothing, fancy appliances, new furniture, state of the art whatever, a nicer car or even a
new car for that matter. My one thousand
plus square foot house is just perfect for me right now and has been for the
past thirty years, even when I couldn’t see that was the case all of the time. I’ve found a new appreciation for what I
have.
Be Grateful
It always amazes me
how powerful the act of gratitude can be.
When I am grateful for what I have I no longer crave more. When I am grateful for the day at hand I no longer
feel anxious. When I thank God for
everything He has blessed me with I feel calm.
When I count my blessings, and I do this often, I know that I am rich
beyond measure. There is no tangible
thing on this earth that can replace that.
When I am grateful I am happy. When
I am happy then I have NO Bad Days.
Gratitude and
contentment is the ultimate wealth.
Simplifying our lives, appreciating what we have, getting outside and enjoying
nature, it all has a very positive effect on me. I choose to live simply because it gives me a
better quality of life and allows me to really enjoy each and every day the
Lord has chosen to bless me with.