One year ago I
began going through my entire house on a massive decluttering journey. Every
nook and cranny of my home was gone through and when I was done I literally
started over and began again. And then I
did it yet again. I was amazed at how
much stuff I pulled out of this house after I’d already done a huge
decluttering several years ago and thought I was doing a good job managing what
was coming back in. However, after
working full time and raising my children I’d amassed far more stuff than I’d
care to admit.
I was ruthless,
to say the least. I even tackled the sentimental stuff which I must say
was the hardest part of this process, but also very satisfying once it was
completed. Sentimental items are often
boxed up and tucked away somewhere, but we always know they are there. And they nag.
It is always in the back of our minds that we know we need to deal with
that stuff.
My mantra
throughout the process was that if I didn’t like it, need it or want it, it had to go. If it wasn’t all that attractive or didn’t
make me feel good then I didn’t like it.
If it didn’t fit or I no longer used it, then I didn’t want it. If it didn’t serve any useful purpose or I had
multiples then I didn’t need it. Having that
mantra helped my decision making to become much, much easier.
I hauled off
four truckloads of stuff to the donation drop at the thrift store. I gave away tons of stuff for FREE on Facebook
which blessed many, many people. I
filled up my trash and recycle wheelie bins countless times and sent them to
the curb. I took old technology to the recycler. I brought old paint, chemicals and used CFL
light bulbs to the hazardous waste drop off site. Ultimately I hauled a very full truckload of
junk to the county landfill. I even sold some stuff, including a car!
Once I had
culled all of my belongings I began to go through and organize these
things. Not surprisingly I still got rid
of more stuff as I did this. I put up shelves, painted a closet and my pantry. I redid an entire room to serve me better. I reorganized my clothes closet so it now functions better for me in my
current stage of life. I cleared out and reorganized the garage,
my backyard and the deck so all of those spaces are much more enjoyable.
I cleared out my emails, unsubscribed from a bunch of stuff, stopped paying attention to social media and the news so much and have regular periods of time off from my cellphone. I deleted tons of stuff off my
computer that I no longer needed. I
archived and backed up what I wanted to keep onto a new thumb drive. I don’t bring junk mail into the house, it
goes right into the recycling wheelie bin, and I address other mail right away
by filing or shredding it. I don’t allow
paper clutter to accumulate.
It is much
easier and faster to clean my house and keep it organized and tidy. I don’t need to spring clean or devote long
periods of time to taking care of a mess.
I spend more time doing projects and crafts that I enjoy doing. I relax more, I breathe better and I feel
less stressed and anxious in my home and the outside spaces. My entire yard is much easier to manage. When I look out my windows now I smile because
things are good out there and it makes me happy. I have a lot of pride and confidence in my
entire home and property. Anyone can
show up anytime and I wouldn’t feel apprehensive or embarrassed.
I feel a lot of
peace and contentment with where I’m at and what I have. Having less stuff makes me want less stuff
too. I don’t feel like I want or need to
shop for items to bring into the house.
In fact, whenever I do think I might want something I take the time to
really think about it first and decide whether it is truly something I wish to
have or just a fleeting thought. In most
cases I realize it is the latter. What I already have is good enough.
I have no
regrets whatsoever that I devoted the better part of a year getting rid of
stuff and reorganizing my house and yard because I know my efforts will continue
to bless me for many years to come. In
the process I’ve truly made a home for myself.